It's been awhile since I've been standing ten feet from the stage at a concert, elbow to elbow with a hundred other fans, but that's just what I was doing this past weekend. Two friends and I drove nearly three hours north to Fond du Lac, Wisconsin to go see one of my old favorites from high school, Ted Nugent, who was playing at a county fair. Needless to say, I've been a fan for decades even though I probably don't have his music blaring from my car on a regular basis. But I do have Stranglehold as one of my ringtones and if that doesn't prove I'm a huge fan, I don't know what does. :)
So I'm standing in about the fourth row deep when the aforementioned song, Stranglehold, comes on. If anyone out there is a Ted Nugent fan, you'd know this is his signature song, and indeed, my all-time favorite. I melt a little inside, dreamily singing and twanging the guitar chords (I'm sure to the dismay of those around me), when the couple in front of me moves back away from the stage a bit so they can talk. Naturally, I move forward, still singing, completely "in the zone," psyched that my favorite song is on. I'm even taping it off my iPhone, something I couldn't have done at a concert when I was in high school, for sure.
Of course, THE JERK comes back and now is upset that I'm there, so he turns his back to the stage and pushes me forward into the others as hard as he can. I ignore him, trying to yell an apology (amidst giant speakers) to the people who I'm getting slammed into that the guy next to me is being a *jerk.* (Please insert your favorite swear word *here* because I didn't say "jerk" either.) Long story short, his boorish behavior continues to the point where he's putting his hand in front of my phone and he's spending all of his time trying to ruin my experience instead of just watching Ted's incredible guitar playing. (Some of his other songs were faster or a different version than the CD, but he was staying true to Stranglehold and man, it was flawless.)
I'm saying things like, "You're right next to me, chill," and "Dude, it's freaking Stranglehold. Just watch!" Nope...he couldn't let it go that he was next to me instead of in the exact one foot of earth that he was a minute ago. Then he gets a buddy, I kid you not, two guys in their late 20's that are built like rocks felt the need to push and shove into the people in front of me so they could stand directly in front of me and hold their hands up in the air to block my view. Exasperated, I'm just like, "Whatever, *jerks!* and I'm about to inch over when a hand reaches in from in front of the stage and grabs me. The two *jerks* move and this somewhat chubby, shirtless, 20-year-old dude ( heretofore known as THE HERO) says, "She's with me!" and pulls me in front of him so that I'm now in the first row. Ted Nugent. Three feet away. Singing Stranglehold.
Tears start streaming down my cheeks - not from being so close to Ted Nugent singing my all-time favorite song (although it was certainly swoon-worthy), but because this kid who probably couldn't hold his own in a fight against these older, muscle-bound guys risked getting the crap kicked out of him - for me! Someone he had never met.
It was an amazing underdog moment and every time I tell it, like now, the tears stream down my face. Ugh! But I know God let me experience this event so I can transform it into a book sometime in the future. Not this concert or even these circumstances, but THIS FEELING OF ELATION AND GRATITUDE toward a stranger. Simply amazing. After that song, the concert ended. I ignored the jerk and turned to my HERO, who saw my tears and I thanked him. Said I'd been waiting a looong time to see Ted, drove three hours, and that what he did was the nicest thing a stranger ever did for me. He hugged me and said, "I was happy to do it. That guy was a huuugee *jerk.*" (Insert word again - definitely NOT the word he used either.) And we both turned and went our separate ways.
I don't know that the experience changed him in any way, or if he even repeated the story to anyone, but I'm proud to call him MY HERO.
Stranglehold by Ted Nugent (*for your viewing pleasure*)